Lesson 18 · プレゼントを あげます — the giving chapter
Give and take, and both halves of the door
Chapter 17 taught verbs that do things to things. Today's nine verbs do things to things for people — and six of them arrive in pairs: give and receive, lend and borrow, teach and learn. One event, named from both ends. Then the sheet does something no sheet has done before: it delivers a whole conversation, both sides of a Japanese doorway.
1.Three pairs, one frame
The frame has not changed since chapter 17 — noun, を, verb, and the verb last. What is new is the shape of the verbs themselves. Six of the nine come as three matched pairs, each pair naming a single event from its two ends:
| One end | The other | The event |
|---|---|---|
| あげます give | もらいます receive | a gift changes hands |
| かします lend | かります borrow | a thing changes hands, and comes back |
| おしえます teach | ならいます learn | knowledge changes hands |
The course has met this arrangement once before: 行きます and 来ます named one journey from its two ends in chapter 16. Today the same idea reaches the things you own and the things you know.
Trick 1 · Arabic builds the same pairs from one root
Where Japanese pairs its verbs by sound — かします/かります, one syllable apart at the seam — Arabic pairs them by verb form, from a single root. Lend and borrow are both ع-و-ر: أَعَارَ lends (form IV, handing over), اِسْتَعَارَ asks to borrow (form X, requesting). Teach and learn are both ع-ل-م: عَلَّمَ teaches (form II, passing on), تَعَلَّمَ learns (form V, taking in). Two grammars, one job: the seam-syllable does in Japanese what the verb form does in Arabic — it names which end of the event you are standing on.
2.The nine verbs
Three pairs, two senders — おくります for the parcel, かけます for the phone call — and きります, the one verb on the sheet that works alone. Every one is common; one marker on the sheet is not right.
| Japanese | Kanji | Group | English | Arabic |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| きります | 切ります | I | cut, slice | يَقْطَعُ |
| おくります | 送ります | I | send | يُرْسِلُ |
| あげます | 上げます | II | give | يُعْطِي |
| もらいます | 貰います | I | receive | يَتَلَقَّى |
| かします | 貸します | I | lend | يُعِيرُ |
| かります | 借ります | II | borrow | يَسْتَعِيرُ |
| おしえます | 教えます | II | teach | يُعَلِّمُ |
| ならいます | 習います | I | learn | يَتَعَلَّمُ |
| かけます | 掛けます | II | make a phone call | يَتَّصِلُ |
Three of the kanji are for recognition more than for use: あげます, もらいます and かけます are usually written in kana — the textbook prints all three without kanji, and 上げます and 貰います are the sheet's own additions. The standing rule from chapter 14 has not moved either: each verb is one fixed shape with its ます attached; the group numerals build forms this course does not build yet.
One marker on the sheet to correct
かります is group II, and the sheet marks it I — the first wrong marker since chapter 14's おきます. The trap is the り: chapter 16 warned that かえります looks group II and is I; かります is the same illusion facing the other way. 借りる is an ichidan verb — its り belongs to the stem — so the り before ます proves nothing in either direction. Only the dictionary settles it, which is why every sheet's markers get checked against one.
Trick 2 · The bracket chooses the verb
The sheet prints かけます [でんわを〜], and that bracket is doing more work than any other on the page. かける is one of the busiest verbs in the language — the dictionary's first sense is to hang something up, and it seats guests, spends time and wears glasses before make a call arrives at sense four. You are not learning the verb かけます today; you are learning the phrase でんわを かけます, and the noun in the を-slot is what chooses the meaning. Chapters 13 and 14 put でんわ on a card; today it finally rings.
3.One sound, three words
Eight chapters running, the dictionary check has said that a short kana string identifies almost nothing, and today it outdoes itself. Three of this chapter's plainest nouns are homophone triples, every member common:
| Sound | This chapter | And also | And also |
|---|---|---|---|
| はし | 箸 chopsticks | 橋 bridge | 端 edge |
| かみ | 紙 paper | 神 god | 髪 hair |
| ちち | 父 my father | 乳 milk | — |
The chopsticks and the bridge are the textbook example of Japanese pitch accent — はし falls for the chopsticks, はし rises for the bridge — which is how speech tells apart what writing tells apart with kanji. And ちち is the dictionary at its most deadpan: look the sound up and milk comes back before father.
Trick 3 · The course now owns a homograph pair
Lesson 4 taught はな, the nose. Today's sheet teaches はな, the flower — and they are not one word with two meanings but two different words, 鼻 and 花, that happen to share a sound. It is the first time one kana string holds two cards in this course, and it is the whole argument for the kanji column in one pair: strip the characters away and the sentence about smelling a flower with your nose becomes unwritable. Chapter 17's お花見 has been carrying this 花 all along.
4.The desk in katakana
Seven office nouns arrive, and not one of them needed a kanji: this desk was imported. But the words are not simply English said slowly — each one has been worked on by a different Japanese habit, and the habits are worth more than the words:
- Clipping. ワープロ is ワードプロセッサー cut down to four beats; パソコン is パーソナルコンピューター cut the same way — two beats from each half. Long loans get clipped so routinely that the clip becomes the real word and the full form sounds like reading a label aloud.
- Brand names gone generic. A stapler is a ホッチキス because the first ones sold in Japan carried the E. H. Hotchkiss company's name; tape is セロテープ from the Sellotape brand — and the sheet's own English gloss, Scotch tape, is a third trademark doing the same job in American English.
- Hybrids. けしゴム is the course's first word spelled half in kanji, half in katakana: 消し, the native erase, welded to ゴム, Dutch rubber. The spelling is the word's biography.
- Narrowing. シャツ alone historically means the undershirt; the buttoned one is ワイシャツ, swallowed whole from white shirt. A loanword does not have to keep its donor's range.
One spelling on the sheet to correct
The fax is ファクス, and the sheet prints フアクス — a full-size ア where the textbook prints a small ァ. Lesson 9's rule decides why it matters: ファ is two characters and one beat, so フアクス would gain a syllable — fu-a-ku-su — and stop being the word. The size of one character is the pronunciation, which is exactly what the small-kana rows were for.
5.The family, twice over
Four rows of the sheet are two people named twice, and the doubling is the lesson:
| Your own — humble | Someone else's — honorific | |
|---|---|---|
| father | ちち 父 | おとうさん お父さん |
| mother | はは 母 | おかあさん お母さん |
Talking about your own father to someone outside the family, he is plain ちち — lowering your own side is a form of politeness toward the listener. Someone else's father is always おとうさん, dressed in the honorific お and the さん the course has put on names since chapter 11. (At home, speaking to him, he is おとうさん too — the humble words are for pointing inward while facing out.)
Trick 4 · Arabic makes the same bow with a different word
This is not a Japanese eccentricity. Arabic keeps two words for father — plain أَب and courteous وَالِد, the one who fathered — and asking after someone's وَالِد is the polite register exactly as おとうさん is. The mechanics differ — Japanese builds the honorific out of prefixes, Arabic reaches for a second root — but the instinct is identical: the other person's family gets the finer word.
6.Already, and not yet
もう and まだ close the main list, and they are one pair, not two adverbs: もう says the event is behind us, まだ says it is still ahead. They answer the same question from opposite sides — the fourth two-ended pair on one sheet.
A boundary, named out loud
The sentence this pair really lives in — have you eaten yet? — needs the past tense, and this course has not taught it: verbs are still fixed ます shapes, by decision. So もう and まだ are learned today as words, and their best sentences stay ahead of us, the way いくら waited chapters for the numbers that answer it. Arabic, for what it is worth, leans the same way: its already is often just the particle قَدْ before a past verb, and classical Arabic keeps a dedicated not-yet particle, لَمَّا. Both languages make this pair out of grammar more than out of vocabulary.
7.The season
Five scenes, forty-one words, each in exactly one of them. The route this time is not a day but a season — which the sheet supplied itself: クリスマス is on the list, and every noun on the page is a thing you give, a tool you give it with, or a person you give it to. The presents move; the words move with them.
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8.Forty-one words
Six of these are deliberate repeats. はし, かみ, ちち and はは are lesson 4's two-kana cards; きっぷ is lesson 5's; りょこう is lesson 7's. Each is here because the chapter's own argument needs it — the utensil set is defined against はし, the register pair cannot be taught without its humble half — and かみ, きっぷ and りょこう gain their kanji here for the first time. Their English and Arabic are the same as before; a word met twice is not two words. はな is the exception that proves it: same kana as lesson 4's card, genuinely different word, so it gets a new card of its own.
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9.Both halves of the door
Seven rows of the sheet are utterances, and for the first time they are not half of anything: they are a whole scene — a visitor at a Japanese door, and the host behind it, each holding their own lines. Read them in order and you can hear the door open:
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1.Excuse me — anyone home? — called at the door
Japaneseごめんください。
gomen kudasai
Arabicالسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ.
as-salāmu ʿalaykum
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2.How nice of you to come — welcome!
Japaneseいらっしゃい。
irasshai
Arabicأَهْلًا وَسَهْلًا.
ahlan wa-sahlan
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3.Do come in — literally, come up
Japaneseどうぞ おあがりください。
dōzo oagari kudasai
Arabicتَفَضَّلْ بِالدُّخُولِ.
tafaḍḍal bi-d-dukhūl
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4.Excuse the intrusion — said crossing the threshold
Japaneseしつれいします。
shitsurei shimasu
Arabicعَنْ إِذْنِكَ.
ʿan idhnika
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5.Won't you have some tea? — offering, with the sheet's 〜は slot filled
Japaneseおちゃは いかがですか。
ocha wa ikaga desu ka
Arabicمَا رَأْيُكَ فِي فِنْجَانِ شَايٍ؟
mā raʾyuka fī finjāni shāy?
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6.Thank you, I'll start — said before eating or drinking
Japaneseいただきます。
itadakimasu
Arabicبِسْمِ اللهِ.
bismi llāh
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7.What a nice…! — admiring what you have been handed
Japaneseすてきですね。
suteki desu ne
Arabicمَا أَجْمَلَ هَذَا!
mā ajmala hādhā!
Three of these repay a closer look. おあがりください says come up, not come in, because a Japanese entrance hall is a literal step below the house — the invitation is onto the raised floor, and the language kept the architecture. いただきます is not a loose bon appétit: it is the humble verb to receive — this chapter's もらいます, bowed lower — so the table formula is the giving chapter's own grammar, aimed at the meal. And the Arabic column is matched by function, not translation: at an Arab door you announce yourself with a greeting of peace, not an apology, and at the table you say بِسْمِ اللهِ, naming God rather than receiving humbly. Each column is what that language actually says at that moment.
Trick 5 · A whole conversation at last
Chapter 16 supplied どういたしまして four chapters after ありがとう asked for it; chapter 17 delivered five answers to an invitation the course still cannot issue. Today, for the first time, both halves arrive together: the caller's lines (ごめんください, しつれいします, いただきます) and the host's (いらっしゃい, どうぞ おあがりください, 〜は いかがですか). Learn it as a scene, not a list — each line exists to answer the one before it, and the scene is the first conversation this course can carry from knock to teacup.
10.Sources
- Minna no Nihongo I, 3A Corporation — 第7課, which this sheet reproduces in the textbook's own order, main list and 会話 block both. Read the book's 会話 for this lesson if you read one thing: it is this door scene played out — a visit, a present, and these very lines doing their jobs in sequence.
- Jisho.org, over JMdict/EDICT (CC BY-SA 4.0) — every reading, gloss and commonness tag here, checked 2026-08-25. It is what settled that 借ります is group II against the sheet's I, that ちち is milk before it is father, that はし and かみ are common triples, and that かける hangs a coat three senses before it makes a call.
- ホッチキス — ja.wikipedia — the E. H. Hotchkiss brand history behind the everyday word for a stapler.
- Lesson 16 — the first two-ended pair (行きます/来ます), and the かえります trap that today's marker slip mirrors.
- Lesson 4 — the original cards for はし, かみ, ちち, はは — and はな the nose, which today's flower is deliberately not.
- Reading 1 — where いらっしゃいませ and the どうぞ/تَفَضَّلْ pairing first appeared; this chapter's door phrases keep that wording.